Jon, I hope you are doing well. I like the others don't know what will happen with your sitch, but I pray for everyone on this board.
I pray that they will be at peace and reconcile. I think your W is very confused. When family is involved it really stinks for us LBS. I never said a word to my family about anything, I have even made excuses for H's behavior and so on. Do they keep telling me to move on? YES, they do, but I'm doing in what I believe in, and hoping that God answers my prayers.
I believe your W's family has been pushing her but I give her credit for not doing anything (as far as you know) yet. My H went right away and did what they told him to do. He told his family lies about me, so he could look like the victim and now no wonder they are pushing him to finalize the D.
You acted so wise, by staying calm when she brought up the D. You probably have her thinking why isn't he freaking out....good job. You know my story, I think I made the biggest mistake by contacting H when I got the copy of the letter from my lawyer that H's lawyer wrote saying H is anxious in resolving the open D matter. I didn't beg or anything, but I did cry.
Made some settlement proposals at the bottom and we were suppose to meet today (me and my lawyer), but he had to cancel until tomorrow. H doesn't even have a clue to all of the bills that are in both of our names and so on......he mentioned a home improvement loan and the sale of the house and that was it. I was like what home improvement loan? We never had one of those, he mentioned that once before to his lawyer so I don't know if he has no clue, or it is just another one of his lies.
UGH......this is rough. Hang in there buddy. I give you so much credit, because most guys at your age would have said the heck with this and would have filed for a D themselves.
