Thanks Jon. Where I'm confused is that from the very beginning of this mess he thought I was the problem and for over 2 years he still thinks I'm the problem.....off and on. Mostly on.
Do they ever realize that we aren't the problem? If so, when? I mean, they leave us, they treat us like crap, have no responsibilities, and still think they need that piece of paper. For what? Especially my H....there isn't OW, I don't know if it's game playing or what to think.
I read on Rejoice Marriage Ministries where some do come to their senses right before the D is final, but is crazy. My H claimed he was always confused but let his family (I really believe), make his decision as far as filing for a D in the first place and now because of all the friction and fighting with his family and him and our D14 they are really pushing him. What I wouldn't do to know how he really feels and what he really wants.
