Denver, you know more than anyone what you need to do, you just need to DO IT! You mentioned it yourself several times, you are becoming impatient. That is completely understandable, but you need to find the strength to get the patience back.
Back to the basics here. GAL! You said you have seen her pretty much every day. That does not leave much time for YOU. Start doing some things for yourself. This will help get that patience back.
AVOID R talk. I don't think rehashing all of the problems is helping. Try to keep conversations enjoyable. When R talk does come up, go back to listening more and saying less. You have told her your feelings many times. She knows, saying them over and over only brings up negative feelings.
Absolutely drop the OM stuff. She needs to process that on her own. Again listen more, say less. You're not going to talk her out of her feelings. Don't be an enemy to them.
I suggest you go back and re-read your own threads. Look at what you were doing, what was working. Find that patience again.
BASICS!
180's GAL Avoid R talk Validate No pressure!
I know you have this in you. Do it Denver!
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