1) Our 14 year anniversary is coming up in 3 weeks, and I am not sure what to do. I am not sure if I should ask her if she wants to go to dinner, or get the babysitter, or what? I originally had a weekend away to Paris planned before all this happened.
I think if you were to initiate anything, it would be considered pursuing. Since you are working on the LRT, don't pursue. Let her initiate if you're going to do anything at all.
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BUT not doing well finding myself and finding my life of me. I am not displaying well my attractive side. Not down exactly, just more like a zombie around the house, except I really enjoy my kids, I am happy and upbeat with them.
It is VERY important to GAL when doing the LRT. I have found that GAL has vastly improved my mental health and it has stirred curiousity with my WAW. Don't forget about your kids, though. Try to balance the GAL with spending time with your kids, OR incorporate your kids in at least some of the your GAL activities.
