I read this today in the success stories, and I am posting it here to remind myself every time I read this thread.
1 - Stop negative momentum 2 - create atmosphere where spouse feels comfortable contacting you and spending time with you. STOP THE PRESSURE AND GET A LIFE 3 - Learn to detatch from the rejection, not from your spouse. There is a difference. 4 - Create mystery not jealousy. 5 - Forgive when they return 6 - Make your changes real. Do it for yourself not to trick your spouse.
