I admit I only read about 1/2 thru. I'll read the rest later. Even I need a break from this "I'm not sure" stuff.
My advice is to go dark as much as you can. Let her wonder why you are not calling, not jumping to be with her. She has you walking on eggshells now and she is quite comfortable with it. You need to get off the eggshells. When she knows what she wants to do, she can call you. You don't need to go every day to hear this "I don't know" business.
Totally agree with this, Denver. ^^^
Not only is your "eggshell-walking" not working for YOU, but it's making you look needier than I know you want to appear.