The Roller Coaster Keeps on Rolling

[~¤DG¤~]

Denver,

I completely empathize with your sitch. Your W seems very torn.
She is liking the changes she sees in you, but is afraid they are not legit. I know how frustrating it is to have to hear that. I hear that from my H all the time.

IMO I think you are doing great. As hard as it is to be upbeat and positive, you are doing everything you can to validate her feelings and let her know that you understand.

As hard as it is, maybe you do need to back off a little bit and let her miss you. I know that you don't want her to think that you don't care, but maybe it will give her the opportunity to really miss you.