The Roller Coaster Keeps on Rolling

[Denver_2010]

Denver,

I admit I only read about 1/2 thru. I'll read the rest later. Even I need a break from this "I'm not sure" stuff.

My advice is to go dark as much as you can. Let her wonder why you are not calling, not jumping to be with her. She has you walking on eggshells now and she is quite comfortable with it. You need to get off the eggshells. When she knows what she wants to do, she can call you. You don't need to go every day to hear this "I don't know" business.

Tell me about Lotus. Very frustrating. I have considered your suggestion on backing off, but wonder if that is just the response that she expects from me... that it will only validate her concerns about me reverting back to previous behavior, ie, anger, silent treatment, withdrawal from R...

Yes... she has me on eggshells. No doubt.

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Denver