Sandi's right---your goals for yourself are great.
Originally Posted By: Country_Song
I agree with sandi, except for:
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-i would like my W to invite me to something with our D2
This seems like more of a wish than a goal. What can you do to work towards this goal?
Actually, in terms of RELATIONSHIP GOALS aka DB GOALS...this is a nearly perfectly stated goal.
And Country Song's question is nearly perfect as well.
What would have to come before she would invite you to do something with your D2? What would be the FIRST sign that you were headed in that direction? What would you have to do differently to make that happen?
This is EXACTLY how you DB. You make small goals, you work to achieve them. Making progress towards them is baby steps, achieving them is success. Achieving a lot of those goals / having them snowball, or take on the momentum of building the marriage is major success. EVERYONE has to keep it up, so there is never a done deal...a marriage is a living thing. Celebrate your successes, believe in them.
