Well today is clearly another day of me feeling totally unimportant in the gf life.

Came home to not even an acknowledgement. I said "Hi" after eventually going into the kitchen where she was. She said "How was work?" I said busy, and went to bed. She came up and said "oh, are you sleeping in here? I've been sleeping in here (spare room). Sleep well." Then she went out, apprently to a BBQ picnic according to facebook.

I just had to get up and feed her cats because they were driving me nuts every 10 mins for the last 2 hours since dinnnertime. She isn't home, hasn't been home.

An hour to go till work.

I am getting very tired of being totally unimportant

Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.