I'm just wondering how many are actually working on themselves, and what kind of difference it's making to the sitch. My H is in IC weekly for almost 2 months now but still insists his childhood issues are not related to our M problems. I try to find hope in the fact that he's in therapy rather than just running, but frustrated that he can't/won't see the connection.
My W has a Ph.D in clinical psychology. So she can diagnoses herself. ;-)
I'd worry too and wonder about the IC as well. My IC identified the connection on the first or second session and we continually worked on it. ICs are different and are different quality.
But your H has to be open to seeing that connection and maybe the he hasn't yet.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
