Let me ask you this...did you ask her to the movie with the expectation that'd she say yes or did you just ask her for another reason?
Because if it's the first one, it's going to wear on you and that PMA is going to take a beating. She may not be pulling a way..just look at it like she's regrouping.
I'd took the approach where I let my W lead on ALL of that. I never called her during the day, never texted her, never invited her to go do things as a family. I figured she's an adult, if she wanted to go she'd speak up.
She knew how I felt about that. She knew I wanted to spend time with her. She knew she was welcome.
But I knew the moment I asked her and expected a certain answer, I'd be disappointed if I didn't' get it.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.