Thanks AJM smile

So it is a beautiful Saturday a.m. Wish I could be outdoors hiking but have our tax appt. this afternoon. ugh! Every year I vow not to get behind on paperwork and every year I am scrambling at the last minute to get everything together. The last two months haven't helped! smile

H just left for the gym and to get the stuff that he was supposed to get for our garden posts last weekend when he "disappeared". So we'll see if he comes back with the cement this time! Of course my mind thinks other things will be going on........then I started to get all bummed again........and wouldn't you know it...he came back home with my favorite Starbucks drink. Now I feel like a JERK for thinking the things I was thinking before!

But wait...H just called and now he is at the "gym"......the one near where the OW lives, he can play basketball there. He said he gets bored with the machines at our gym, blah blah blah. Then he said he is going to do some "running around"...so I predict I will not see him until noonish. We'll see. He did set up an outing for us this afternoon with friends for a beach walk and happy hour. I think it somehow makes him feel better when he plans a little something for us on the afternoons when he is gone in the mornings. Maybe it eases his guilt. Whatever.

Last night we watched the TV show "Men of a Certain Age". It is really a great show. I rented the whole first season on Netflix. Thankfully H had fallen asleep during the part about one of the character's cheating soon to be XW and then it came out that he had actually had an EA prior to her PA. That would have been very awkward to watch together! Whew!

Song for the Day "How We Operate" Gomez


Me - 49
H - 56
S - 23
D - 20
Married 25 years
H moved out 10/11/13
H moved back in 10/13/13
H moved out again 8/1/14