I have some bad days but most of them are good now a days. There is very little communication between us. He calls usually once a week to come and see D. I don't call him at all.
Everyone kept telling me that when he got served that he would call, I knew he wouldn't and he didn't. It didn't bother me. He did call my S though and told him that I was going after his bal*s. Everything isn't on the papers yet. We haven't even started. He has 21 days to respond and then it begins. The only thing that was on the papers was child support for D and that will go for life and even after he dies it will go to his estate. The other was spousal support.
My S said he was afraid my H would be a pauper. I told my son that this was all his choice. My S is feeling sorry for his dad, but I have to look out for D and me!
My H has a rude awakening coming that is for sure!
