Sure, reasonable compared to some here, that didn't make it any easier to live it day to day in the same house.

I do think that there are many people that change or 180 and have expectations, and then change again, and pretty soon there's so much spinning that who can tell what is really happening? That's why IMO some times just being still is right for awhile. That doesn't make it right forever.

I felt plenty of hatred from H, it was tense and real. But I lived my life, I was able to go back to MY roots, which was also the base for the R with my H. I put new challenges in my plan for me, and it was up to H if he wanted to stay a part of what I was doing.


Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.