I'm not saying don't do anything with your life, you definitely need to live your life and keep moving forward. What I'm offering is that when it comes to the R with your H you've swung from side to side so much that sitting in the middle for awhile might be the thing to do. There is so often I've seen here that folks try to force a change and it backfires.

I admit that I got to the point where I felt good enough about me, my life, my plans, my confidence in me, that I told my H I was not living the way he had us set up anymore, and I was ready to change it. Maybe I was just lucky that I had waited long enough, but he listened, and he never made a sharp turn but his path made a wide swing back.

I'm sure it doesn't work for everyone, but I moved forward with my life and always left room for H to join me.


Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.