Running out of time

[jon2911]

Here's another way to look at it GF:

Your NC worked very well. And you invited him to the confirmation and told him the door is still open. You didn't get the reaction you were hoping for, but don't worry about that.

I agree with everyone else: time for more NC. Leave him alone. Right now he thinks you are the problem, that D will solve it, and there's NOTHING you can do to change his mind. He's going to have to figure out that his problems are still there without you. You are strong enough to do this.