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this is so funny... seems like just when I resign myself to the fact that fbf (facebook friend) is not all that interested he comes back with a vengeance.

I have not been on facebook much... not cuz I was avoiding him I have just been busy. So, last night he sent me a txt message just to say hi and then asked if he could call. He called me on the actual telephone and we talked for almost an hour. It was fun and he did say "we have been throwing the idea of meeting for dinner around and I really want us to do that". So maybe I will go on an actual date {blush}

I have tons to keep me busy though and I am very excited about the move and the fresh start.


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It's been ages since I've been here to check on my DB friends. NNP, did you go on a date????

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nope still no actual date yet. I think this guy is really only interested in being facebook friends maybe. frown Who knows I refuse to spend much time trying to figure it out though!

The boys and I are almost completely moved into our new home!!! YAY We close on our old house this coming Thursday! I can not wait. I decided to rent for a while (maybe forever). Every time I am in my new house I love it more smile

Next time to stop in, Mat... please let me know how you are as well.


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I'm back already and hoped you would see that I was checking on you! Your new house sounds like the perfect transition. Is it in the same school district as before so the boys don't have to change schools? And how nice that you can decorate how YOU want! When I moved I thought I wanted to buy a house so just rented a tiny apt with a 5 month lease. Here I am 1 1/2 years later and enjoying not having the responsibilty of a house. However, I do miss the space!!! My daughter and grandson have moved in with me so it's pretty cramped at this time.

Meanwhile I continue to work on being happy just being me! I wonder if I wille ever want to date.

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Mat! you sound great, glad to hear you are enjoying your space. My new house is 1.4 miles from the old house... made it nice for moving smile


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ugh still have not closed on the old house. I will be so glad when that part is over! Everything else is going pretty well.


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closed on the house... I am no longer a home owner! YAY One more step closer of being completely un-entangled.

Planning a house warming party in my new home... Life does go on.


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Congrats!! Selling and closing on a house is not an easy feat in this real estate market these days! One more step towards total freedom for you and housewarming parties are fun!

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NNP,

Like you, I'm glad that albatross has flown the coop once and for all! smile

Looks like someone besides me gets to figure out what the "new normal" is ...


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Had a pretty good day... oldest DS had to work all day, but youngest DS went to church with me and we have hung out all day.

Got a very unexpected text from xh this morning.... basically wishing me happy mother's day and telling me how much he appreciates me taking good care of our kids. Gag me... it ticked me off! The last thing I needed was to hear from him at all today! but I shook it off, didn't let it bother me. proud of myself for that.


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