What is her favorite color? favorite song? favorite new artist? What are her Love Languages? What makes her laugh--always try to get her to laugh! It's magical!
Share your spiritual growth w/ her. Let her know that you feel God's presence w/ you.
And be a little naughty too--women love the "bad boy". Not over the top--but just throw a few little "guy things" out there now and then.
Many on this board would kill to have hour-long conversations with their S's. These may be too long--mix it up some and see if it's helpful--20 minutes here (and then you have to go--be a little mysterious), and 45 minutes there.
Good luck!
Some of our convo's go for less than 5 min, some for an hour. I have always been able to make her laugh. As for her favorites, I could write reams on those subjects. I'm a very studious individual. And since I felt like moving beyond the friend stage all those years ago, she has been my main course of study. But I never told her that. I felt my actions showed it. Buying just the right gift, turning the bathroom into a mini-spa, or fixing dinner for her, I always thought she knew.
A while back, we were having a conversation and she started asking me what her favorites were (testing me I guess). She was truly shocked when I got about all of them right. Even her favorite flower or candy (they depends on her mood). As far as my relationship with the Lord, she knows (kinda, as much as one person can know about another). But she remains unimpressed. I'll just keep praying and let the Lord do what He does best (that's a trick statement He's best at everything He does,) Miracles.
M-34 W-31 2 S,11&11 1 D, 6 T 13 YEARS M 12 YEARS ILYBINILWY OCT. 2009 We are too close. All we see are smears of paint. The Lord sees the masterpiece He is painting.
