I woke up thinking about your sitch!! Playing devil's advocate to WCW - whose husband has emerged, some get stuck, and I am not sure we are required to just sit there in a non functional relationship. I think there is a world of difference between patience and inertia, although it isn't always possible to see the difference until later. But only you can know the best course of action.

Do you honestly think that staying as you are will change anything [I guess I am echoing WCW from the other side] Maybe you need to move on and see if your h catches up. Not good dbing I know.