Am I doing everything wrong?

[Confused423]

Thanks everyone for the advice! dmod...thanks for the article!

I am having a hard time sleeping lately and I really goofed this afternoon. I sent a text that was meant for a friend of mine and it went to my H instead b/c he was talking to me at the same time. Now he thinks that I am trying to find someone new and he is very upset about it.

I read in the "setting free" thread that this could be a good thing, but I don't know if it is the case with my H. He already says that he doesn't trust that the changes in me are permanent and now he thinks I'm stepping out on him.

I called him out on it (probably shouldn't have). I said that he hurt my feelings and that it bothered me that he was hung up on this because he does have another relationship. Was that the wrong thing to say??

I know that I am sporadic in my posts, but everything is sporadic right now!

I really appreciate all of the advice that I have been given though and I'm trying to work it all out in my head. Please keep it coming...

Thanks so much!!