Originally Posted By: Starsky
The enabler cannot CONTROL the alcoholic, but he/she can certainly stop enabling the destructive behavior.


Totally agree Starsky.

You can lock up the booze.

You can stop drinking yourself.

You can tell their friends and family not to allow them to drink because they have become an alcoholic.

And yet...

They will drink until.

They don't want to.

Not a god@mn thing you can do about it except get away from it.

And live your life until they see things differently.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am