Better! I have to admit, I have a lot of the same thoughts. While it can be comforting to think that in the end we will be the ones in a better place, that should not be our focus. We should be happy were we are headed, but no joy from their possible disappointment.
If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion
We are great people. We did not find this place by chance. We did so because under the worst circumstance, we chose to fight, not to run. I think it says a lot about the character of everyone here. But we are also people who have contributed to a broken marriage. We all have our weaknesses. We now face our own personal challenge to become a better person. Fix ourselves, so history won't be repeated, with our S, or with someone else.
Enjoy ever minute with your children. While it might not be ideal, we have an opportunity to teach them a lot. How to handle diversity. It is something everyone will have to face. Do you fight or run? Do you improve or crumble?
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.