I'm just wondering how many are actually working on themselves, and what kind of difference it's making to the sitch. My H is in IC weekly for almost 2 months now but still insists his childhood issues are not related to our M problems. I try to find hope in the fact that he's in therapy rather than just running, but frustrated that he can't/won't see the connection.


Me- 35
H- 36
M- 7
T- 9
D3, D5
Bomb 1/21/11
EA/PA began 12/10?
Discovered A 3/2/11
S- 3/3/11
OW gone- 4/27/11
H says he wants to reconcile, but lacking action