Hi. I'm just wonderinG how did your situation end. I'm going through a similar process now. My husband of 16 yrs has told me about 6 months ago that he loves me but is not in love with me. That he is not getting any younger and he wants to live his life before he dies. That he wants to be able to go out with his friends and not worry about what time he has to be home because maybe he doesn't want to come at all. He swears there is no other woman. He just wants to live. Around me he is so miserable it hurts me. I don't k ow how to fix this. I'm desperate!!