People who can't look at themselves, look for someone else to blame for their problems and their unhappiness.
If they were to accept responsibility for their feelings and their actions, they would also have to see the reality of the pain that they caused to others. As well as the resons for their behaviors.
It would be nice if it would go away, and maybe someday it will...
Forgive me the plagerism, but if you look at my thread, my H has been trying to run roughshod over me all day. I thought your words were perfect, and sent them to him. Probably won't do a da$n bit of good, but made me feel better.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
