Sometimes the lack of hormones can cause a woman to have the symptoms that describe your wife. Having babies can do that, then losing a child would cause such terrible grief and depression. Both of you have experienced what often tears a couple apart. Sometimes, the pain is so bad that the person is desparate to excape and they don't know how. They think if they move...or get out of a R...or something....anything to stop hurting.
Read DR and come here for support. Don't pressure her. Don't talk about the R. Listen when she talks. Look into her eyes when she talks.....that's very important.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
