Grace,

I have been reading your posts and see so much parallels in our life.

I see you had gone through all the pain and anger that comes with having a live in. I wonder if our H's stayed because they saw the weakness in our D's, or did our D's react in this way, this cutting, because of H's toxic presence?

Just wondering if I should hasten kicking out my H!!!! Is life easier for you now that H is gone? You have not posted for a long time about your sitch. I gather you are doing OK.

I am still trying to search for you on the alt, but can't find you. Perhaps you can search for me instead - look for Anjel.I also am on the "40 day Challenge" - a Lenten challenge hosted by the Extraordinary Mom's Network - I have some posts in that site. You can reply to my posts there.

Thank you for being around, for helping me understand.

Lorie, this goes for you too.

And all my friend out there.


Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go