you are not - you're seeing results and doing great things. Confrontation also didn't really work in my experience - but everytime he choses you over her and says I love is a shovel full of dirt in the grave of the side stuff he has going on. . You just have to get her good and buried first. (I do not condone or suggest literal murder!)
Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible. --Stanislaw Lem
you are not - you're seeing results and doing great things. Confrontation also didn't really work in my experience - but everytime he choses you over her and says I love is a shovel full of dirt in the grave of the side stuff he has going on. 
