Yep, I know how all of that goes. You have been so great to me and have helped me so much.
Mine wants it his way or no way also, or like I said he will have a judge assigned. All I keep thinking even though I'm still Standing for my M is my H can do what he wants, but a judge is only going to make it worse on him (if this is really what he wants....the D).
The games mine plays are unbelievable. Don't get me wrong, he may want it big time thinking leaving me and the kids didn't make him happy. Him moving 4 times in 2 years didn't make him happy, so now a piece of paper is going to make him happy. I came right out and told him "If you think signing a piece of paper saying it's over will make you change the way you feel, trust me it won't." I said all of this in a nice way and voice. He went completely silent. But then again, my H when he gets angry always runs to his lawyer and starts pushing the D again, as soon as he doesn't get his own way. So I really don't know what he wants, and I really think your H is the same way. They think that a D will end all feelings for us and the past will just disappear and they can start a whole new life and forget about the M and love they had for us, but it doesn't work that way for most WAS's.
And remember what I told you the other day, my H was making any sense at all either. They are very confused and are being influenced by others to make the D final.....just my opinion.
