Personally, I believe they go back into anger when ever reality gets too close...
Even after years...
When something doesn't seem to go the way they want it, we again become the scape goats...
It will probably remain that way until they really deal with their issues and whether or not we are around them.
People who can't look at themselves, look for someone else to blame for their problems and their unhappiness.
If they were to accept responsibility for their feelings and their actions, they would also have to see the reality of the pain that they caused to others. As well as the resons for their behaviors.
It would be nice if it would go away, and maybe someday it will...
Until then, just do your best to ignore it...
Or tell them they are f'ing nuts...worked for me
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
