Standing up to the punches

[Redo]

Hi gr8. Thanks for your advice. Yup, I am still attached to my M and wife. Some days I am so looking forward to move on. Other days i just let myself be dragged down. Sometimes i wonder if i will actually be at peace once the D goes through. At-least then I can move on and not worry about the divorce details.

I know that in my wife's case, she might only realize how life is on the other side only when she is there. That means let the D go through.