A couple of months ago my ex called me and asked me for forgiveness. He apologized for some of his actions, especially the affair. I told him I forgave him and I wished him a wonderful life (no pressure, right?). He told me he was seeing medical, psychological and spiritual professionals to try to improve himself.
2 weeks ago, me and my brothers went out to eat. We ran into my ex with OW. He was very hostile without any provoking on our part. In front of my family he called me a little bit--- and told everyone he was going to kick my as-----. I felt if I would have been alone he would have. It was pretty scary.
Do to the last incident, I have gone completely dark. I won't return any of his texts, etc... I am not so sure his anger will ever go away. My ex's anger is so volatile. I have come to the conclusion that there is no reasonable explanation for this. Projection, changing history, demonizing me just so he does'nt have to face up to his faults, etc.... It does not matter. They are all inappropriate ways to deal with life.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
