Awesome that she's going to counseling, that's a good sign. I may have said this already, but like my DB Coach always says, look for the small signs. That's a pretty good one.

I was thinking of her being only 80% sure she wanted out. Reminded me of the old Pareto Principle - or 80/20 rule - where 80% of the effects come from only 20% of the causes. If she's only 80% ready to leave, then focus on the 20% that causing her to feel this way. A 20% change isn't all that much, when you think about it.


"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending."
- Maria Robinson

M: 45 WAW: 36
T: 17 M: 14 Kids: D9
ILYBNILWY: 6/2010
W left: 2/2011
W back: 2/2012