My Story and Looking For Support

[gr8 day 2B alive]

bobcat,
sorry you are in this mess, you have found a great place to help and vent.

"i know longer love you, I feel no connection to you and I am not sure I want to reapir the marriage".

Can you be more specific with what you think led her to make her decision?
The more you tell us the better we can help.

First starters, do things around the house that you otherwise wouldn't do or thought you didn't have to do.
Don't do them to get noticed by her, do them b/c you want to do your share around the house.
She will notice, trust me. And she may make nasty comments to you about it.
Don't get nasty back, say something like:
I get now, I doing xxx because it needs to be done.
Do it for you.
post oten others will be around soon.