Finally, some movement on my end of things. H contacted D24 that he urgently needed to talk to me. He emailed my old address saying that his paycheck was about to stop and that he was having all the auto-drafts stopped and I could just pay them or destroy my credit, including HIS 2008 Ford pickup.
I responded calmly that I have been expecting this and had done my homework on the situation. Was he perhaps considered non essential personnel?
I also told him that I would call our Mtg'r and see what could be done. I did so, and found that they have set up a special dept. just for military and all he had to do was send them a copy of his orders. Sent him the fax # and phone #.
Emailed info to H, told him what to do and if he did not do it, it was all on him. As for the truck, that was in his possesion, and he needed to do the calling to the bank. All said nicely.
Even his Emails are full of rancor and hate. Just another ruse to "get me". SIGH
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011