Standing up to the punches

[gr8 day 2B alive]

From CS's thread you posted:

I dont want to Hijack this thread, but what if the impending doom of divorce is looming close? I am not sure what is worse. If your spouse says that they are not interested in working on the marriage but still don't divorce, or as in case of my wife, said she did not want to be married to me, filed for divorce and is pushing it at full swing and along the way has been quite un-reasonable with some of her divorce requests. How do i deal with the situation where i still love this woman, but don't like where she is taking our lives. I am unable to reconcile these. Yup, i try to work on myself so that i can be a better person and might be my wife might take notice, but it is becoming very very hard knowing that pretty soon the divorce will go through. I would love to hear your feedback. Again, sorry for hijacking the thread

karma,
You are still very attached to the M.
Where she's taking OUR lives? You don't have to go there.
Lead your life by your own standards. I highly reccomend the book- Boundaries, by CLoud and Townsend.
I have seen many WAW rush through the D process.
It's so they don't allow themselves to change their minds.
They are being very selfish.

Think about this way,
Divorce papers are just as meaningful as a Marriage cretificate.

Live you life to your code and you will never be disappointed with yourself.

gr8