She lied right to my face today. Minor but still it upset me. I took the kids to school and picked them up. That means she had a 100% free day.
She told me part of her day was a nice workout. I know she did not (won't go into details how I know but I am absolutely certain with no shadow of a doubt). This is not the first time I know she lied about that issue.
The issue is not the workout but that she tells me face to face how she had such a nice workout (at home with DVD's). But that she can so directly lie to me. Makes me more sure she can lie about just anything easily to me.
It's not that I believe everything she says these days but makes me wonder what else she is keeping from me or lying about.
Ugh. Hard days. I know I need to not care bit when she voluntarily tells me about her day and lies what am I supposed to think?
How I know: I did the laundary today and there were no workout clothes as normal after her workout. Plus no DVD in the computer or around the desk. Finally all workout stuff was still scattered as the day before under the guest bed and in the cabinet.
Why would she lie? Can't figure that out other than she told me in the morn when I took kids to school that she was going to work out.
Instead I worked my butt off at work with ridiculouseetong abd stress and she went shopping to buy some shoes and no doubt hung out at cafes all day and read all day. Now we are going out for dinner. Ok but weak.
Last night she was so nice and we had great connection before I went out with friends. Today she just shunned me and didn't want to talk at all. As I write this she is upstairs just sitting on the bed reading which us what she does to disconnect from the family.
