"Thanks, but no thanks, I'm done with limbo. I'm moving out on Tue next week."
lees, my question is, if you want to be together, why are you moving out? What is it YOU want? Why is it this the "strong" thing to do? She is the WAW, but it seems like you are helping her and then you complain about the way you are treated.
That's what I mean about "Get yourself together." Step up here and start doing things for you and you alone. Do what you want. Take care of yourself first and let you WAW worry about herself. Go to counseling - that's great, but go for yourself. Don't go "hoping" your W will mysteriously join you and everything will be ok.
And cut the covert stuff. It never works. It's sneaky and unappreciated. Plus, as Mach1 says, you are then introducing other elements into your R - there are enough there already. The idea is to remove unneeded elements.
Originally Posted By: Mach1
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Such a wasted opportunity
Only if YOU waste it Lees....
Exactly the point. Get busy.
"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending." - Maria Robinson
M: 45 WAW: 36 T: 17 M: 14 Kids: D9 ILYBNILWY: 6/2010 W left: 2/2011 W back: 2/2012
