Cautiously optimistic

[OnMyWay]

That's awesome, DG. If he has that commitment, then take a breather. No need to rush into anything. Get yourself right first.

I'm close (I hope) to being in that position where my W is considering coming back, although I admit I can't say for sure. Point is, I have to avoid the temptation of having her back as soon as possible, as there would be no changes - and that would be disastrous. Might as well give her the time to continue to work through her issues and use that time to better myself. That way, should we decide to reconcile, it will be much easier with the majority of our demons behind us.

Deep breath. Since we didn't do it right the first time, we'd all better get it straight this time around, or there's no point it working so hard for it.