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But exactly what does "get myself together" mean?



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I've booked another counselling session in the hope she might attend. I've sent her an email explaining why I got so upset and acknowledging that work commitments are huge for her at the moment.



Not like this....


Yourself....define...yourself

You do things for YOU, not in hopes of anything other than you becoming a better person throughout the process. You cannot put any hope into "convincing" her of anything.

Once you can work on you, then your focus changes.



What was her deal before you met ?

Where was she at in life ?

Previous relationship just failed ?

There is little back ground here Lees, would you mind filling us in more ?







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Is it ever possible to get someone to read something without them knowing you want them to read it? I don't have an ally to deliver it for me unfortunately. I don't have anyone I can turn to from her family or friends that I think would be interesting in helping to save our relationship rather than view it as an unfair manipulation.





Why you would WANT anyone else in your relationship ?


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Such a wasted opportunity



Only if YOU waste it Lees....