Making Changes

[stayingstrong]

Need help. Wife and I are seeing a MC. Gone once together, and once each alone. Next week we go together again to start working out insecurities and issues. Wife and I are doing much better over the past week. Relationship is on track, but I know she is still struggling with things, and that is what our MC is going to help us with.

One item our MC wants to come back with on Monday is a goal from each one of us in how we are going to help our marriage. Holy &*&^!! It's been awhile since I have had to set a personal goal with my wife, and I don't know what to do! I know she is freaking out too. I just want to make sure I pick the most appropriate goal going forward that would help us. You know, not like..."well, I wish we would have sex more than once a month". Now, that would be something I would want, but I know that when she emotionally attaches herself again, that will come. I need help with a truer goal here!