Journaling.
I sense that her lawyer is much of the delays and the reason we have no deal. That's part of it I think. Oh well, I am not in a hurry.

I've been putting more thought into filing vs. not filing. I have no reason not to, but what gives me pause is the principle of it. Since I figure it is in my best interest if she marries the OM, I could almost force that issue by filing for the divorce. She has been so hell bent on me filing it for years. I haven't a clue as to why, but do recall the time she offered me sex if I would initiate the divorce. That mentality (the offer is no good of course :)) has not stopped.

Otherwise, things are good. It's my birthday tomorrow. Looking forward to it. Work is slowly killing me but life is good smile

Later,

AJ


"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
Put the glass down...
"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."