Hi Punkin, I follow along quite a bit and I think you have been doing a wonderful job giving advice here.
You are not alone. My court day is this month on the 26th. Then this will be all over for me but the craziness will not be.
Custody sharing of our 3 boys will keep me attached to the insanity.
Just 2 days ago W said she still loves me but it does not change anything.
They are bound and determined to see the D through. I truly believe she will not find what she is looking for but she will have to find that out on her own.
It has been a long road but I can see life getting better for me if I remain detached.
I think the anxiety will start to fade after enough time passes.