To comment back about the your spouse being passed away, I am saying you would be a great dad to your child.
I understand. My response was a bit of a bad joke.
One of the concrete positives from all of this is how it has changed my perspective of time with my D. I always considered myself a good dad, but when time is limited you realize you need to make the most of the time you do have. I enjoy every minute of it and do so with a renewed focus.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.