Unwavering hostility

[peacetoday]

I always felt my xh hostility was due to his own seperate anger issues from childhood-
His mother was controlling and everything was projected onto me during our M, through his MLC our R was probably better b/c I was letting go and having No demands on him, and he moved out..so the time we spent together was little compared TO OUR M
I probably had similar issues as his mother, which I have hopefully worked on and continue to
Now we have No Contact--
So I beleive in my case his anger and hostility got projected onto me
it was not my fault but until the mlcer deals with the unresolved issues of childhood, I think they will continue to project negativity onto xspouse
Peace