Beatrice,

This was all my fault when H left. The reasons he used were not something that you destroy a marriage over. After 18 months he is using the same reasons only magnified. My faults have grown worse since we've been apart. LOL

It didn't matter that I left him alone during the last 15 months to live his new life while the responsibility for his old one fell to me. His anger is still there and even more so now.