Propt to the number change my W had been upset about switching vehicles, so she suggested we trade in our vehicles (I need to because mine doesn't fit us all... She does not... She does not need one just wants a new car) the new loans would be our individual responsibility. I did not respond for a month, but when things were calmer I did contact her about her earlier suggestion and that I would be interested in do so. Two days later I get a copy of the letter from W's attorney stating I told her I was gonna trade it in without approval, and that I was harassing her about the vehicles.
She has been recently contacting me regarding the tax refund... I filed but no $ yet. I advised her she owes me court ordered $ such as kids lunches, health premiums, enrollment fees, etc. $400 about. She initially said, I'm not paying you Shhh! I told her she was ordered to... Later she stalls a bit and eventually says I don't know if I can pay you this month (already a month late). I said if you want I can take it out of the refund. She say no give me my tax refund and I'll pay you on my own... Lol... She's not gonna pay! I pay her child support on time, but she just tries to make my life as miserable as she can. She kept asking if I would be paying her as soon as taxes arrive... A baiting maneuver I suspect... I just responded, Your in violation of the court order and I'm nit gonna discuss this issue with you any longer. She keeps emailing now asking about if the taxes arrived... They have not but will this coming week I bet... I am so tempted just to deduct what she owes... have to check with attorney. Nonsense!!!