Lees' lives it up again

[lees]

But exactly what does "get myself together" mean? The strong thing to do here would be to say:

"Thanks, but no thanks, I'm done with limbo. I'm moving out on Tue next week."

My issue with that is that it puts us in seperate cities, with no contact except for the actual moving of my stuff. I see the point of NC - it isn't to save the relationship, it's to save the LBS. Possibly not the right tack when she's saying she's only 80% sure it's over and agreeing to counselling.

Otherwise I'm doing the same work, social activities, housework etc as I was before we met. Possibly a little more work pressure at the moment, but that's the only difference, along with the current house hunting for somewhere else to live.