You may not have caught this in my thread, but this is the 2nd time around the MLC-go-round for me. First time was in 2002. I don't believe he ever finished, or completed his journey, at that time. I've lived with it for a long, long time. Just had to live without him as of last year.
I also talk to God and ask him for what I would like to happen, but I also know to Thank God for unanswered prayers sometimes, as well.
Again, I say go as dark as possible. He's a complete bag o'nuts and he's making you one. Misery loves company.
Don't count yourself out for strong. You've held on for two years, when most would have chucked it by now. You have a strength all your own.
One thing, IMHO, don't tell him you are standing for your marriage. Don't tell him you are doing anything other than living your life. I believe he is enjoying bouncing you off a string far too much. ((HUGS))
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
